Irvin D. Yalom

Irvin D.
Yalom
1931

American Existentialist Psychiatrist, Professor of Psychiatry at Stanford University, Fiction and Nonfiction Author

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Why, you may ask, take on this unpleasant, frightening subject? Why stare into the sun? Why not follow the advice of the venerable dean of American psychiatry, Adolph Meyer, who, a century ago, cautioned psychiatrists, 'Don't scratch where it doesn't itch'? Why grapple with the most terrible, the darkest and most unchangeable aspect of life? ... Death, however, DOES itch. It itches all the time; it is always with us, scratching at some inner door, whirring softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.

I want a society that is not captured by false beliefs.

If we look at life in its small details, how ridiculous it all seems. It is like a drop of water seen through a microscope, a single drop teeming with protozoa. How we laugh as they bustle about so eagerly and struggle with one another. Whether here, or in the little span of human life, this terrible activity produces a comic effect.

Keep in mind that therapy is a deep and comprehensive exploration into the course and meaning of one's life; the centrality of given death in our existence, given that life and death are interdependent, how can we possibly ignore it?

Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.

No rose without a thorn. But many a thorn without a rose.

Pass, then, through this little space of time in harmony with nature and end thy journey in contentment, just as an olive falls off when it is ripe, blessing nature who produced it, and thanking the tree on which it grew.

So death, he thought, has finally made its appearance on stage. But what a banal entrance. A stack of unread novels unaware that their time would now never come. A whimpering, disappointing finale.

Tell me believe God is omnipotent? ... God is perfect and there is no need and no deficit and desires and dreams. Is not it? ... Praise be to God about how he or even if he does not honor any wishes and dreams. So let me make my own way to love God and to love him.

The law of God, not high, the true knowledge and love of God. Real knowledge, means of perfecting wisdom that allows us to know God more fully. I love the words of Prophet Solomon who says: When wisdom enters your heart and your soul enjoys the recognition of the righteousness and justice and you will understand all the good routes.

The strength of faith is nothing to correct it! Each deity has its ardent believers in deep thinking.

To build children you must first be built yourself. Otherwise, you'll seek children out of animal needs, or loneliness, or to patch the holes in yourself. Your task as a parent is to produce not another self, another Josef, but something higher. 's To produce It a creator.

We should treat with indulgence every human folly, failing, and vice, bearing in mind that what we have before us are simply our own failings, follies, and vices. For they are just the failings of mankind to which we also belong and accordingly we have all the same failings buried within ourselves. We should not be indignant with others for these vices simply because they do not appear in us at the moment.

Will that which is necessary and then to love that which is willed.

I wish to end all tradition of independent thinking in the right of individuals to intervene.

If you kill God, give up from his refuge in the temple, you have to leave the place!

Let me quote from the ancient Greek sage Epicurus you say is the purpose of life , his answer is that we should be looking translated to inner peace or relief from pain and emotional suffering Epicurus said, in a part of the community here Catch the least psychological pressure brings you the feeling like you are with someone who marry their philosopher Epicurus knew that mental illness can pay doctor. He said: philosophy that does not heal the soul as well as a drug that does not cure the body, have little value.

Marriage is not a prison, but a garden that's what it grows larger and larger. Perhaps the only way to save a marriage that is cut it.

None of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future. Some have expressed the very opposite feeling--the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.

Patients, like everyone else, benefit most from a truth to discover themselves.

So the highest and the happiest of endeavors is to be a philosopher? Doesn't it seem self-serving for a philosopher to make that claim?

That is limited to what can be surrounded by another of the same type. Thought to be enclosed by another thought, but the object is not limited by thought and thought is not limited by the body.

The leader must land is next to the waterfall, not crutches. The leader must find ways to show that the students are. But he does not allow it to choose the way.

The thoughts haunted him. He hated them: they robbed him of his peace; they were alien, neither possible nor desirable. Still, he welcomed them: the only alternative- banishing Bertha from his mind-seemed inconceivable.

To care of another individual means to know and to experience the other as fully as possible.

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First Name
Irvin D.
Last Name
Yalom
Birth Date
1931
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American Existentialist Psychiatrist, Professor of Psychiatry at Stanford University, Fiction and Nonfiction Author