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Jean de La Bruyère

The most amiable people are those who least wound the self-love of others.

Character | Love | People | Self | Self-love | Wisdom |

Jean-Antoine Petit-Senn

There are wounds of self-love which one does not confess to one’s dearest friends.

Character | Love | Self | Self-love |

Horace Smith

Every man, like narcissus, becomes enamored of the reflection of himself, only choosing a substance instead of a shadow. This love for any particular woman is self-love at second hand, vanity reflected, compound egotism.

Character | Love | Man | Reflection | Self | Self-love | Woman |

Villefré NULL

In all times self-love has blinded the wisest.

Character | Love | Self | Self-love |

Saint Augustine, aka Augustine of Hippo, St. Austin, Bishop of Hippo NULL

When one has this intelligent self-love is commanded to love his neighbor as himself, what else is enjoined than that he shall do all in his power to commend to him the love of God? This is the worship of God, this is true religion, this right piety, this the service due to God only.

God | Love | Piety | Power | Religion | Right | Self | Self-love | Service | Wisdom | Worship | God |

François Fénelon, fully Francois de Salignac de la Mothe-Fénelon

It is this unquiet self-love that renders us so sensitive. The sick man, who sleeps ill, thinks the night long. We exaggerate, from cowardice, all the evils which we encounter; they are great, but our sensibility increases them. The true way to bear them is to yield ourselves up with confidence to God.

Confidence | Cowardice | God | Love | Man | Self | Self-love | Sensibility | Wisdom |

Michel de Montaigne, fully Lord Michel Eyquem de Montaigne

It takes a lot of self-love and presumption to have such esteem for one’s own opinions that to establish them one must overthrow the public peace and introduce so many inevitable evils, and such a horrible corruption of morals, as civil wars and political changes bring with them in a matter of such weight - and introduce them into one’s own country.

Corruption | Esteem | Inevitable | Love | Peace | Presumption | Public | Self | Self-love | Wisdom |

Charles Caleb Colton

Few things are more agreeable to self-love than revenge, and yet no cause so effectually restrains us from revenge as self-love. And this paradox naturally suggests another; that the strength of the community is not infrequently built upon the weakness of those individuals that compose it.

Cause | Love | Paradox | Revenge | Self | Self-love | Strength | Weakness |

Charles Caleb Colton

We strive as hard to hide our hearts from ourselves as from others, and always with more success; for in deciding upon our own case we are both judge, jury, and executioner, and where sophistry cannot overcome the first, or later the second, self-love is always ready to defeat the sentence by bribing the mind.

Defeat | Love | Mind | Self | Self-love | Sophistry | Success |

François de La Rochefoucauld, François VI, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Prince de Marcillac, Francois A. F. Rochefoucauld-Liancourt

Nothing is so capable of diminishing self-love as the observation that we disapprove at one time what we approve at another.

Love | Nothing | Observation | Self | Self-love | Time |

François de La Rochefoucauld, François VI, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Prince de Marcillac, Francois A. F. Rochefoucauld-Liancourt

Friendship is only a reciprocal conciliation of interests, and an exchange of good offices; it is a species of commerce out of which self-love always expects to gain something.

Commerce | Good | Love | Self | Self-love | Commerce |

Immanuel Kant

So sharply and clearly marked are the boundaries of morality and self-love that even the commonest eye cannot fail to distinguish whether a thing belongs to the one or the other.

Distinguish | Love | Morality | Self | Self-love |

James Bryant Conant

Self-denial is often the sacrifice of one sort of self-love for another.

Love | Sacrifice | Self | Self-denial | Self-love |

James Bryant Conant

Vanity finds in self-love so powerful an ally that it storms, as it were by a coup de main, the citadel of our heads.

Love | Self | Self-love |

Norman Vincent Peale

In an emotionally healthy person there must be self-love as well as love of others. Lack of self-esteem is probably the most common emotional ailment.

Esteem | Love | Self | Self-esteem | Self-love |