Great Throughts Treasury

A database of quotes

Erika Chopich and Margaret Paul

American Psychologists, Co-Authors of "Healing Your Aloneness"

"All of our controlling behavior - our anger, blame, pouting, teaching, explaining, caretaking, compliance, and denial - comes from believing that we can control what others think of us and how they treat us, and that how they think of us and treat us defines us."