This site is dedicated to the memory of Dr. Alan William Smolowe who gave birth to the creation of this database.
If we would keep filling our minds with the picture of happy things ahead, many of the worries and anxieties, and perhaps ill health, would naturally melt away... If we lived in the atmosphere of expectancy, so many of our petty problems would be no problems at all! Always expect the best.
Henry Adams, aka Henry Brooks Adams
From cradle to grave this problem of running order through chaos, direction through space, discipline through freedom, unity through multiplicity, has always been, and must always be, the task of education.
Character | Discipline | Education | Freedom | Grave | Order | Space | Unity |
Shlomo Wolbe, aka Wilhelm Wolbe
From the very beginning of a person’s life one learns that the purpose of life is not uninterrupted pleasure. Every infant suffers pains and illnesses. We should not perceive illness and pain as negative. Suffering teaches us humility. We learn that we do not have complete power over ourselves.
Beginning | Character | Humility | Life | Life | Pain | Pleasure | Power | Purpose | Purpose | Suffering | Learn |
Often have I heard it said, What good thing you can do, do not defer it.
The greatest of virtues, self-control.
Character | Control | Self | Self-control |
Cheerfulness sharpens the edge and removes the rust from the mind. A joyous heart supplies oil to our inward machinery, and makes the whole of our powers work with ease and efficiency.
Character | Cheerfulness | Efficiency | Heart | Mind | Work |
Austonius, fully Decimus Magnus Ausonius
Forgive many things in others; nothing in yourself.
Abraham ben Moses ben Maimon, aka Rabbi Avraham Maimuni, aka Rabbeinu Avraham ben ha-Rambam NULL
Strive to not become dependent on the pleasures of the world.
How can we explain the perpetuity of envy - a vice which yields no return?
Sin is never at a stay; if we do not retreat from it, we shall advance in it; and the farther on we go, the more we have to come back.
Criticism and dissent are the indispensable antidote to major delusions.
Character | Criticism | Dissent | Indispensable |
Unrequited love is the meaning of life. We’re here to love but not to be loved, to give but not receive. Our mission in this world is to improve humanity and leave a better history than we found. Only selfless love has such power. Only love without interest or expectation of reward can change human beings... To give love without receiving love is the truest love and brings the greatest happiness there is in life.
Better | Change | Character | Expectation | History | Humanity | Life | Life | Love | Meaning | Mission | Power | Receive | Reward | World | Expectation | Happiness |
He, whose first emotion on the view of an excellent production is to undervalue it, will never have one of his own to show.
Whatever may be the laws and customs of a country, women always give the tone to morals. Whether slaves or free, they reign, because their empire is that of the affections.
Rabbi Akiva, fully Rebbe Akiva ben Yosef NULL
Rejoice in adversity even more than in prosperity, for suffering brings forgiveness of sin.
Adversity | Character | Forgiveness | Prosperity | Sin | Suffering | Wisdom | Forgiveness |
Every man has three characters - that which he exhibits, that which he has, and that which he thinks he has.
A man may as certainly miscarry by his seeming righteousness and supposed graces as by his gross sins.
Character | Man | Righteousness |
Shana Alexander, fully Shana Agar Alexander
The sad truth is that excellence makes people nervous.
Character | Excellence | People | Truth | Excellence |
Marcus Aurelius, Marcus Aurelius Antoninus Augustus
Embellish the soul with simplicity, with prudence, and everything which is neither virtuous nor vicious. Love all men. Walk according to God; for, as a poet hath said, his laws govern all.
Character | God | Love | Men | Prudence | Prudence | Simplicity | Soul | Govern |
Marcus Aurelius, Marcus Aurelius Antoninus Augustus
To live happily is an inward power of the soul.
Marcus Aurelius, Marcus Aurelius Antoninus Augustus
The perfection of moral character consists in this, in passing every day as the last, and in being neither violently excited nor torpid nor playing the hypocrite.
Character | Day | Perfection |
Self-control and understanding, righteousness and courage, there is nothing in life more profitable than these.
Character | Control | Courage | Life | Life | Nothing | Righteousness | Self | Self-control | Understanding |
Bahya ben Asher ibn Halawa, also known as Rabbeinu Behaye
Envy is hatred without a cure.
Few consider how much we are indebted to government, because few can represent how wretched mankind would be without it.
Character | Government | Mankind |
A good character when established should not be rested in as an end, but only employed as a means of doing still further good.