This site is dedicated to the memory of Dr. Alan William Smolowe who gave birth to the creation of this database.
The best that a parent can be... A demonstrator... A consistent, constant demonstrator of being in your own vortex.
O, sheep if I do not eat you, you will eat me, said the hyena.
The entire Universe is set up to produce wanting within you. You cannot squelch wanting. You are born wanters. Wanting is a good thing.
Desire | Expectation | Expectation |
Love enjoys knowing everything about you; desire needs mystery. Love likes to shrink the distance that exists between me and you, while desire is energized by it. If intimacy grows through repetition and familiarity, eroticism is numbed by repetition. It thrives on the mysterious, the novel, and the unexpected. Love is about having; desire is about wanting.