Great Throughts Treasury

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W. Clement Stone, fully William Clement Stone

Be careful the environment you choose for it will shape you; be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them.

Will | Friends |

William Hazlitt

However we may flatter ourselves to the contrary, our friends think no higher of us than the world do. They see us with the jaundiced or distrustful eyes of others. They may know better, but their feelings are governed by popular prejudice. Nay, they are more shy of us (when under a cloud) than even strangers; for we involve them in a common disgrace, or compel them to embroil themselves in continual quarrels and disputes in our defense.

Better | Defense | Disgrace | Feelings | Prejudice | World | Friends | Think |

Woodrow Wilson, fully Thomas Woodrow Wilson

You cannot be friends upon any other terms than upon the terms of equality.

Equality | Friends |

William Hazlitt

He will never have true friends who is afraid of making enemies.

Will | Afraid | Friends |

W. Somerset Maugham, fully William Somerset Maugham

Social distinctions in the final analysis depend upon money. The great English lords of the eighteenth century were not treated by their inferiors with the obsequiousness which not turns our stomachs because of their titles, but because of their wealth, which, with the influence it gave them, enabled them to grant favors to their friends and dependents.

Influence | Money | Wealth | Friends |

Chief Luther Standing Bear

From Wakan Tanka, the Great Spirit, there came a great unifying life force that flowed in and through all things - the flowers of the plains, blowing winds, rocks, trees, birds, animals - and was the same force that had been breathed into the first man. Thus all things were kindred, and were brought together by the same Great Mystery. Kinship with all creatures of the earth, sky, and water was a real and active principle. In the animal and bird world there existed a brotherly feeling that kept the Lakota safe among them. And so close did some of the Lakotas come to their feathered and furred friends that in true brotherhood they spoke a common tongue. The animals had rights - the right of man’s protection, the right to live, the right to multiply, and the right to freedom, and the right to man’s indebtedness - and in recognition of these rights the Lakota never enslaved an animal, and spared all life that was not needed for food and clothing. This concept of life and its relations was humanizing, and gave to the Lakota an abiding love. It filled his being with the joy and mystery of living; it gave him reverence for all life; it made a place for all things in the scheme of existence with equal importance to all. The Lakota could despise no creature, for all were of one blood, made by the same hand, and filled with the essence of the Great Mystery. In spirit, the Lakota were humble and meek. “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth” - this was true for the Lakota, and from the earth they inherited secrets long since forgotten. Their religion was sane, natural, and human.

Brotherhood | Despise | Earth | Existence | Force | Freedom | Joy | Life | Life | Love | Man | Mystery | Religion | Reverence | Right | Rights | Safe | Spirit | World | Friends |

W. Somerset Maugham, fully William Somerset Maugham

The prestige you acquire by being able to tell your friends that you know famous men proves only that you are yourself of small account.

Famous | Men | Friends |

Achilles Poincelot

It is wrong to believe that frank sentiments and the candor of the mind are the exclusive share of the young; they ornament oftentimes old age, upon which they seem to spread a chaste reflection of the modest graces of their younger days, where they shine with the same brightness as those flowers which are often seen peeping, fresh and laughing, from among ruins.

Age | Candor | Mind | Old age | Reflection | Wrong | Old |

E. W. Howe, fully Edgar Watson Howe

Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better.

Little | Friends |

Dmitri Shostakovich, fully Dmitri Dmitrievich Shostakovich

There can be no music without ideology. The old composers, whether they knew it or not, were upholding a political theory. Most of them, of course, were bolstering the rule of the upper classes. Only Beethoven was a forerunner of the revolutionary movement. If you read his letters, you will see how often he wrote to his friends that he wished to give new ideas to the public and rouse it to revolt against its masters.

Ideas | Music | Public | Rule | Will | Friends | Old |

Cyril Connolly, fully Cyril Vernon Connolly

We cannot be happy until we can love ourselves without egotism and our friends without tyranny.

Happy | Love | Tyranny | Friends |

John Grier Hibben

Let us examine more closely the significance of this vague word, reality. It may have several meanings, according to the different points of view which one takes. We may regard it as embodied in the physical world, the world of land and sea, of sky and trees, of sunshine and of storm. The real therefore will be to us that which we can touch and see, smell and taste, as one will say, "I know that is real for I can see it with my eyes." Seeing is believing, and the testimony of the senses is the superior court of appeal in controverted questions. But the world of reality may be regarded from quite a different point of view, as the world of consciousness, the mind of man, the experiences of the inner self, the Ego. Here is a world of phenomena interrelated and reciprocally dependent. It is a realm of ideas, of memory images, of fancy, of will, and of desire. The verities in this world cannot be seen, or measured, or weighed, and yet we do not hesitate to speak of them as realities; they are real as the love of friends is real, or the anger of a foe. The passion of a Romeo, the will of a Napoleon, the genius of a Goethe ... these are realities.

Anger | Consciousness | Desire | Ego | Genius | Ideas | Land | Love | Man | Memory | Mind | Passion | Phenomena | Reality | Regard | Self | Taste | Will | World | Friends |

Eduard Shevardnadze

To sum up, what has been our policy? We looked for and found friends all throughout the world.

Friends |

Epicurus NULL

We do not so much need the help of our friends as the confidence of their help in need.

Confidence | Need | Friends |

Ethel Barrymore

The best time to make friends is before you need them.

Need | Time | Friends |

François Fénelon, fully Francois de Salignac de la Mothe-Fénelon

Do not make best friends with a melancholy sad soul. They always are heavily loaded, and you must bear half.

Melancholy | Friends |

Frank Gelett Burgess

Love is only chatter, friends are all that matter.

Friends |

George Gurdjieff, fully George Ivanovich Gurdjieff

If you want to lose your faith, make friends with a priest.

Friends |

Inuit Sayings

You never really know your friends from your enemies until the ice breaks.

Friends |