This site is dedicated to the memory of Dr. Alan William Smolowe who gave birth to the creation of this database.
Dale Carnegie, originally spelled Dale Carnegey
Don't laugh at a child's ambitions. There is no sting so sharp as ridicule, and a laugh is often ridicule to a child. What a parent should do when he knows his child is overreaching, is to talk it over with him from every angle, and, if possible, find an angle from which the job can be attacked with hope of success. Then urge him forward, give him every encouragement. Above all, don't help your child to do something that he can accomplish on his own. Don't deny him the priceless privilege and thrill of developing his own success.
When you are irritated by his ‘pretentiousness’, you betray the character of your own: it is just as it should be that he increases while you decrease. Choose your opponents. To the wrong ones, you cannot afford to give a thought, but you must help the right ones, help them and yourself in a contest without tension.
Dwight Eisenhower, fully Dwight David "Ike" Eisenhower
We must never forget that international friendship is achieved through rumors ignored, propaganda challenged and exposed; through patient loyalty to those who have proved themselves worthy of it; through help freely given, where help is need and merited... Peace is more a product of our day-to-day living than of a spectacular program, intermittently executed.
Day | Loyalty | Loyalty | Need | Peace | Friendship | Propaganda |
It is not so much our friend's help that helps us as the confidence of their help.
Confidence | Friend |
Laugh, and the world laughs with you; Weep, and you weep alone; For the sad old earth must borrow its mirth, But has trouble enough of its own. Sing, and the hills will answer; Sigh, it is lost on the air; The echoes bound to a joyful sound, But shrink from voicing care. Rejoice, and men will seek you; Grieve, and they turn and go; They want full measure of all your pleasure, But they do not need your woe. Be glad, and your friends are many; Be sad, and you lose them all,— There are none to decline your nectared wine, But alone you must drink life’s gall. Feast, and your halls are crowded; Fast, and the world goes by. Succeed and give, and it helps you live, But no man can help you die. There is room in the halls of pleasure For a large and lordly train, But one by one we must all file on Through the narrow aisles of pain
Earth | Enough | Man | Men | Need | Will | World | Trouble | Friends | Old |
Often we can help each other most by leaving each other alone; at other times we need the hand-grasp and the word of cheer.
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Down in their hearts, wise men know this truth: the only way to help yourself is to help others.
We live truly in our radiations. We grow and develop in proportion as we help others to grow and develop.
Franklin D. Roosevelt, fully Franklin Delano Roosevelt, aka FDR
The motto of war is: "Let the strong survive; let the weak die." The motto of peace is: "Let the strong help the weak to survive."
Galileo Galilei, known simply as Galileo
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him to find it within himself.